“A Tangled Web we Weave…”


O Lord, who may abide in your tent?

Who may dwell on your holy hill?

2 Those who walk blamelessly, and do what is right,

and speak the truth from their heart;

3 who do not slander with their tongue,

and do no evil to their friends,

nor take up a reproach against their neighbors;

4 in whose eyes the wicked are despised,

but who honor those who fear the Lord;

who stand by their oath even to their hurt;

5 who do not lend money at interest,

and do not take a bribe against the innocent.

Those who do these things shall never be moved. (Psalm 15, NRSV)

In the last few weeks we have been riveted by the scandals of public and private lies. Former cyclist super star Lance Armstrong admitted that after nearly a decade of perpetual truth bending, bullying and manipulation he did all the things that his detractors accused him of. He spent millions of dollars, armies of lawyers and a whole host public relations specialists to keep the lie going for years. In spite of all of his efforts, the lies eventually caught up with him.

In another stunning case, the hallowed triumph-over-tragedy story of Notre Dame linebacker Manti Te’o’s deceased girlfriend also turned out to be false. Manti reportedly was the victim of what is called ‘catfishing’- being involved in a virtual relationship with someone posing as an alternate identity on social networking site. (In other words a BIG FAT LIE). Manti reportedly was led to believe that his (now fictional) girlfriend was in a car accident and died of either the car accident or of Leukemia (or both). He never met this girl in person, never saw her live directly face to face (each time they tried to FaceTime, she could see him, but he could not see her), never went on a date, no gifts exchanged and not even a shared experience together in the real world. She didn’t exist……at all….a complicated and devious deceit only meant to entertain her creators at the expense of Te’o (who may know more than he has led the public to believe).

Both of these very tragic and public incidents have exposed the near constant truth of the nature of lies. Lying is an art designed only to confound and undermine the truth. It is a universal experience that lying destroys relationships and is the easiest way to build distrust and erode credibility. While the above examples of lying are really complex schemes that require a great deal of time and investment, the reality is that a lie takes time and energy to promote and maintain.

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Our text for today comes from the corpus of Psalms. In the 15th Psalm the writer highlights the virtues of living an upright life by posing the question, “Who shall abide in God’s Sanctuary?”. Ultimately, the characteristics of one who is invited into God’s presence is holiness and purity. The Psalmist here is promoting the ideal and not necessarily a pragmatic vision of our discipleship. However, the significant revelation from the text is found in the delineation of the effects of unrighteous behavior on our relationships. Specifically, the writer connects righteous behavior with what pleases God with communally acceptable behavior. Doing good to each other in human relationships pleases God as well as one another.

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The disease of lying and the complicated systems we create to lie are part of our inhumanity to one another. Lying displeases God and violates our relationships with one another. Armstrong’s behavior and the acts of catfishers highlight the level of selfish dysfunction that is maintained through our lying to one another. For the sake of wholeness in community and a positive relationship with God, truth-telling has to be promoted in our lives together.

A vision of truth has to include better ways to communicate the truth to each other……together.

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